The road not taken

It has been nearly a year since I last played a role in the Medical Fun Night. We did crazy stuffs that night, including me dressing up as a girl.

It was indeed a road not taken. The first time to dance on stage and also the first time to dress like that. To say that it’s pretty crazy was an understatement – it was insane.

However, looking back, it was a different experience. It shows that one’s potential is limitless, and we should try something new. That dress up made me a better person, I was able to understand how it feels like to be laugh at publicly, and how you can cope with this.

Later on people did try to humiliate me and laugh over those photographs of memories, but to be frank, I felt stronger at heart. What could be worse than this? I told them, “I’ve taken a road not taken, experienced it and grow from the experience. What did you learn in return?”

In short, life is filled with ups and downs, but when you look back at it, it will only be filled with fond memories to think of, and how much wiser you’ve grown out of that experience.

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The feeling of closeness

When you’re out there, you need to adapt to your surrounding, to get yourself comfortable with the culture you’re in. And these are the people who helped you the most: Friends.

Although the time together is brief, and time flies through your life quickly, they are important people who make you realise the importance of having someone close who could laugh with you when you’re happy, and cry with you when you’re down.

A pat on the shoulder means so much, and as soon as they come by, they’re off again in search of their own dreams. So in the mean time, cherish the time you have together.

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Place of Living

 

Where we stay or live plays an important role in our daily lives. From how we interact with the people surrounding us to how the environment affects our wellbeing, a place we stay meant so much to us. A grown person can head back to a place called 'home' even if it is a rundown suburb with much poverty and hardship. It is where we used to belong, poured our emotions into it, and grow up in.   

A place can affect us dearly. Spatial segmentation may give us more personal space, but too much of privacy could lead to some potential issues. When we have more personal space, we leave out 'connectedness' from our daily lives, and this lead to losing sight of community as a whole. Individual tolerance of the others may be threatened. In addition, people finding privacy difficult to obtain, such as children, may spend more time out of their homes, away from the surveillance of responsible adults. All these affect the everyday life and health of the people in this place.

A place may also be affected by global capitalism, where the rich will remain rich, and the poor will become poorer. Be it legal or illegal dumping of toxic wastes, the people who suffered from this exposure to hazard are the people of low income or defenceless ethnicity. As the voices of these people are often neglected, they are defenceless against the party causing harm, and even help from government comes slow.

The local community grows differently too, according to the people occupying the space. In places with great access to resources such as high income and education, the extensive ties formed in the local community may be shallow and short term. However, places with much needs may have less extensive ties, but the bonds may be deeper, involving frequent contacts and greater intensity.

As we study how human interacts with each other in a local vicinity, we may observe a trend of the place, and this actually affects how we should provide support to the community. I believe that when a medical professional is involved in the wellbeing of the society, he would better understand how to provide the services to them, as he understands better the cause of sufferings.

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Fire of Hope

 

Life is always about meaning.

You live in search of meaning.

That is your flame of hope.

 

If you do not cling on to that meaning of life,

you’ll lose your steps quickly,

and you’ll fall.

Still, if you are strong enough, why not dream again?

Why not start a new search, another meaning of life?

We are what we are because of our dreams and hopes.

 

So keep that flame ablaze in search of your very own meaning of life.

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Self-Reflection

Imagine you’re standing in front of a mirror.

Look into that mirror, see a reflection of yourself.

Think of all the things you have done right.

Think of all the things you need to improve on.

A last look at things you need to let go.

Learn what you can from yourself.

Then before you leave the mirror behind, motivate yourself.

I can do it! Thank you, I’m sorry, Please forgive me, I love you.

And you’ll soon realise that you are a better person than before.

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As it turns yellow

As the tree turns yellow to red, it signifies the arrival of autumn, and winter is coming up next.

The bright yellow of fresh flower against the glorious red of withering flower is beautiful, yet rare enough to be appreciated by passers-by where one can only see it once a year.

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Working with people

The most interesting part of life is where you have to work with people. While it’s quite true that some people may find it hard to work with others, when you team up, you’ll be able to work faster and achieve more.

Somehow, you need to be at the same pace with your other team members, or at least get to know what everyone is working on. If you missed out any of the discussion, follow up.

The most important virtue I realized is Patience and Tolerance. Everyone has a say in their decision and you may not agree with it. But you can always try to achieve a consensus with the other party. Working in group means working together to achieve something, not fighting or backstabbing each other to show who is a better leader. If you’re doing that, you’re not a good leader and you’re being plain annoying. A great leader would lead with much willingness to listen to other’s opinions and to guide whenever necessary only. They are the ones who motivate you to do better and achieve more.

You can still see some dictators in this modern society where everything he says is right. Well, I guess we’ll just have to find a way to work with them.

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Pursuing Excellence

Sometimes, don’t do something just because someone asks you to. You have to do something because you wanted to, or it’s something that you love to do. Just like in the movie ‘3 Idiots’, when you pursue excellence in what you love, others would just follow along.

So whenever you spend time doing something you love, especially when it involves serving others, you’ll find joy indescribable with words. It’s called selfless giving.

Do something to help others today!

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Beyond yourself

When you are stuck with your own old thinking, or you are just merely following others, it’s time to break free.

There are so much to learn in this world. There is no right or wrong, no true and false. It is just one’s perception.

If you want to live free, you need to break free from your own limitations, yet knowing what you are doing is the most appropriate for you and the people around you.

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Breaking Dawn

The camp for the freshmen was well organized, and I managed to meet people all across Taiwan, as well as those international students. End of the orientation week and here comes tomorrow: the start of a new semester.

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